Monthly Archives: June 2011

How much “Self-Disclosure” is healthy and how to set boundaries when asked personal questions.

  Do you know when to keep your lips zipped??? I seem to be on a big “Boundary” kick with my clients.  One of the topics that commonly comes up is “What do I do when I’m asked a personal … Continue reading

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More on why our Boundaries are so important!

It’s very difficult to write brief summary about boundaries because the issue is so complex.  In doing so (keeping it simple is my style) I’d like to point out that our boundaries define who we are in our relationships.  They … Continue reading

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Setting Boundries is important in all relationships, as is the manner in which you do it!

Every counselor or therapist I know encourages their clients to “set boundaries” in their relationships.  I agree that healthy relationships involve each person being clear about their boundaries.  It sounds good…but is sometimes very difficult to do. The patterns we … Continue reading

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